NLP Podcast 94: 12 relationship tips for Valentine's Day

Perhaps you have experienced it too: At the beginning of a relationship, everything is wonderfully beautiful, and life couldn't be better. But after a while, the phase of being freshly in love passes, and the everyday life of the relationship sets in. What to do?

Tips for Everyday Relationships

In this podcast episode, Stephan Landsiedel shares 12 tips on how to make your relationship more vibrant and bring new energy into it.

1. Take stock together: Which of your dreams have come true and which have not? What do you wish for your relationship?
2. Formulate common goals: What is the goal of your relationship?
3. Values: What is important to you and what is important to your partner? Are there points in your value hierarchy that fit well or less well together?
4. Fall in love with your partner again: Remind each other of what you love about each other and find a way to show more appreciation in the future.
5. Pampering evenings: Regularly take time to do nice things together. You can alternate planning these evenings so that new ideas keep coming up.
6. Magical days: Allow yourselves to take a whole day occasionally just for your relationship. What new experiences can you have together?
7. Journey to the past: Go together to places where you have experienced beautiful moments. Perhaps you even want to recreate those beautiful moments?
8. Sensory perception: Use all your senses and engage with each other on all sensory channels to intensify everyday relationship life.
9. Anchors: Remind each other of beautiful moments and set anchors for each other.
10. Commonalities: Is there a shared hobby or can you find a common hobby that both of you enjoy? Take time in the future to focus a bit more on commonalities.
11. Preserve your own world: In addition to your shared time, you should allow each other space for yourselves.
12. Self-focus and unconditional love: Focus on what you feel yourself and try not to control your partner's feelings. Try to love your partner unconditionally without demanding anything in return.

In the podcast, Stephan Landsiedel goes into detail on each point and opens up entirely new perspectives on everyday relationship life. For example, use Valentine's Day to refocus on the love for your partner and implement some of the tips together with your partner right away. We wish you and your loved ones a wonderful Valentine's Day. Enjoy this episode!